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Themeglopolitan's avatar

Did you do anything with the school? Are they aware the kids were able to access that media?

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Harrm's avatar

I was a poorly behaved teenager who experimented w lots of inappropriate things in spite of having really wonderful parents and coming from a loving community. I was curious and adventurous and insisted on learning everything for myself. I have always expected the worst from my kids. My 17 yo is imperfect and has made a few of my mistakes. I’m less reactive than my parents were. We make clear our concerns and boundaries, but try not to come across as condemning and convey that no matter what we have her back and we are here to help and support. We try to keep communication as open as possible. She’s not driving yet which gives us lots of access to her world and friends and interests. Im one of the only parents who is happy to provide rides as often as I’m able. I know a lot of families can’t wait for their teen to drive to be more independent but in our case I appreciate this continued closeness while she is still at this very formative stage.

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